Dating 101 - "Pre Date Ritual"

Remember to wash behind your ears!

Continuing our series on Dating 101, we naturally need to discuss how to get ready for a date.

I know, you’re going to say this is stupid.

“This is retarded, I don’t need to do anything special, I’m just going to have a shower beer and spray on some old spice and call it a night.”

Listen “bro,” the sexual marketplace is competitive by nature. If you want top tier women in your life, you MUST be a top tier man.

You don’t get a choice, really.

If you want to keep fucking potatoes, or worse, your hand, by all means, do what every other guy does and continue getting the same results everybody else gets.

However, if you want to be completely irresistible, you must cultivate a magnetic presence.

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Why Bother?

Let’s try this semi-offensive thought experiment:

Picture this, you’re hanging out by the Santa Monica Pier. You just hit a lift at muscle beach, you’re feeling great, you walk down the beach to grab a smoothie.

It’s a cool 77 degrees, you' feel like a golden god, NOTHING can ruin your high.

Out of the corner of your eye, you see a homeless dude taking a shit in the bushes, screaming about some random shit (IDK, I think he said something about the birds).

You catch a whiff of the poorly digested of sludge you guess is In-N-Out, and in a heartbeat your day isn’t just ruined, you swear you will never return to LA.

Let’s ponder about what just happened.

In minutes, your senses were highjacked by someone who was so incongruent that your glorious mood was turned into absolute spite.

His smell, his words, his energy, his mannerisms, everything about him was immediately transferred to you, quickly changing your mental state and changing your future actions because of it.

The same applies in dating.