Struggling to have the sex life you want? Tired of swiping endlessly on dating apps? Upset with dating coaches that simply don’t help?

This newsletter is for you whether you’re a hard case noob, a late bloomer, an up and coming Casanova, or just want something funny to read.

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More about BowTiedCuda:

BowTiedCuda is a reformed playboy that let go of the pleasure-seeking lifestyle to live a more genuine and enjoyable experience. A decade of sex, drugs, and degeneracy, paired with a lot of tough lessons, taught him that the key to relationship success is honesty with yourself and others. Unlike other twitter gurus, his no-bullshit dating advice isn’t trying to push a narrative, or sell you scammy course. It is, by and large, the most raw truth this side of cyberspace.

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